Saturday, September 27, 2008

No! That’s not going to Happen

This month I decided I would put an extra effort forward to lead the way, forge a path in encouraging a budding forum I am a member of.

I wrote blogs, which now suddenly seemed inferior to their purpose, I wrote and rewrote – suddenly 10 different themes in 10 separate files all suddenly full of facts and figures. Yet something was missing.

What was wrong?

I have made incredible, almost unbelievable progress in my health and prospects in the last few months. So why?

Suddenly the obvious reality coalesced.

I had lost sight of my purpose.

Purpose, or vision, is that very thing that propels us forward to move ahead to want to be above mediocrity. Vision - which propels us to be great. Vision - to overcome obstacles. Vision - to give meaning and purpose to all who we meet in this world.

As potential Empowered Millionaires we have to be able to make money. 'To make a buck' as some put it. There is no escaping the fact that an entrepreneur must make a profit.

But that is not enough. We can reach a financial goal and at its realization suddenly wonder 'Is that all there is?" Without vision the journey to success may in itself be weak, pointless and not worth continuing.

Impotent goals are often the source of non achievement. One of the main reasons people fail to achieve their goals is that the goals were never really formed in their mind.

Importantly, a worthwhile vision adds value to others.

A product worthy of success adds value. A product of value generates return custom. A product of value promotes loyalty.

The same is true of a Visionary person. A Visionary businessman is successful because he is directed by vision. A Visionary parent does not allow distractions take his or her mind away from the family. A successful husband is focused on the needs of his spouse and is a blessing to her. A Visionary wife is a blessing to her husband.

Similarly, an Empowered Millionaire more is required than a seven figure bank account. An Empowered life is a Visionary life that compels the Empowered Millionaire to help others live Empowered lives.

Whether you believe God has a purpose for you or you decide your purpose what is it? Is your goal real to you or a fuzzy haze?

Either you know your life's script or the script is being written for you.

Your parents want to write your script for you. Your friends want to write your script for you, Your workmates, your neighbours, society wants to write your script for you.

Let me emphasize an important distinction. Goals and visions are often very different.

A goal of $1,000,000 may be the means to finance a vision. Money is potential power. A power that can be used for good or bad, and the choice depends on vision.

Be it Lakhes and Crores, Ponds and Shiilings, Yen, Peso's or Dollars you can't eat them but they can allow you to enjoy the luxury and feeling of a delicious meal.

Well I know all that, it's nothing new, so why was I stuck?

I realize I had begun to replay the mental tapes calling me to stay in my comfort zone – and the reality stung me, to replay the mind games of my past.
No! That's not going to Happen. No more that's past. Never again.

Some years back I was part of Michael Skye's Vision Force Academy. I was only beginning the course and beginning to experience an emotional re-awakening – but also beginning was a major health decline and a resulting marriage failure. Coincidental timing but a scaring jolt.

Ivan Pavlov demonstrated that when a dog was fed food at the time he heard a bell he would be 'conditioned' (Pavlov's own term) to salivate when only the bell was heard. This happens with any repeated peak emotion, good or bad.

I am now, again, making major changes in my life. Right on cue, at the point of moving toward its serious application suddenly the same unease – brainwashed into me from past trauma began to replay in my head.

Yet there are differences - Major differences.

I am improving in my health in ways I had not imagined only months ago. I am nearly off medication that has left me sedated for over two decades.

I feel so alive at times I am like an overcharged battery, trying to learn to balance my containment.

Relationships, well I don't have to find the perfect lady of my life- I've found her. She is the best motivator on the planet.

She will probably want to kill me for telling you, but then she is much a part of who I have become and who I am becoming.

<i>So how do we determine our Vision?</i>

How do you know what your purpose in life is? How can you leave planet earth a better place than you found it?

The principles have been written up everywhere I will borrow from writer Kate Fergeson.
Quiet time, reflection and journaling

Take time to know yourself. Write a journal and notice recurring patterns.

Watch your responses.

Our vision will be expressed in accord to our environment. A Vision does not occur in isolation. Ghandi and Martin Luther King were successful because they expressed their vision according to the situation of their times.

Another trick I use is when watching a movie or reading a book. If I am particularly moved or even frustrated by the plot or a character I have a clue of something meaningful to me.

Perhaps the plot expresses a situation in the world that I could help change.

As you journal ask yourself:

What Do I Love? Remember you want to 'Follow your Bliss' and live 'Life with passion'.

So begin to daily ask yourself 'What do i love?' and let that realization open
Know Thy-Self!

With a wonderful list of things liked recorded in your look for a pattern. Categorize them

Look at the things contained in your journal, group them, categorise them.

"Are they good for you or bad for you? How do they serve you in your life? What are the common characteristics contained within these groupings?" are questions we should ask according to Kate Fergeson in 'Finding Your Life's Purpose.

Reflect on your responses and journal your thoughts.
Rewrite the script!

You will now know what you Love, and reflecting on this will 'help you understand you understand the role they play in your life and you are beginning to see a picture unfold as to how they can assist you to create a whole new life of Bliss, Passion and Joy'

Now take all these parts and take the images and like Picasso merge these little pictures into your own giant masterpiece. Don't rush; take time, days, weeks even, as you build, refine and readjust the perfection of your future. Constantly improve upon it as your life evolves.

Create a new vision for yourself that incorporates all of these elements. Write your new story. This can take quite a while so let it evolve over time. Write and rewrite as you desire 'until it feels absolutely perfect and makes your heart sings.'
Inspiration

There are two parts to this. Personal inspiration and connection

a) Find things that inspire you to hold onto your new understanding about what your Life Purpose is and how it is manifesting in your life.

Pictures from the internet or magazines. Make a 'Mindmovie' of your vision and play and replay it. Make it your mantra – write a song. Whatever excites you. Read books on it, watch movies about it.

Do anything that makes you feel good about your vision


b) Connect, network with anyone who shares your vision. The Empowered Millionaires Institute gives us the opportunity to inspire and be inspired. To gain we must be an active part of the fun.

Are there organizations that share what makes you happy?

Join them and enjoy your quest for Happiness.

Spend time with your dreams, goals and passions everyday so that your connection remains strong, your inspiration remains with you and your vision remains clear.


So go for it! Your vision is your future. Will you write your script? Or will you let someone else steal your destiny.


Brian

Brian
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Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Magpie Attack and the Power of Thought


Its nesting season here in Australia, and following the ritual of finding a mate and frantic nest building its time for laying and protecting the eggs. I often watch (sometimes with a secret bemusement) as Mrs Magpie, matriarch of the Australian eucalypt, dive bombs helpless hominids whose over the top frantic reactions only seem to make the problem worse.
You see I'm never attacked. I regularly walk a path that at the same time seems to be a practice range for birds improving their pecking skills.
I'm never attacked I say - er..well ... that was until yesterday.
Why? hmmm...
Am I losing my touch?
I have hand fed young magpies introduced by their proud parents, Maggie and Fred, visiting at my back door.
Last week, a few kilometres from home a magpie flew by landing a metre from my head. It 'checked me out' as I noticed a nest, blown down from the late August South easterly winds that cross the peninsular I inhabit.
The nest appeared unused and perfectly clean.
I tried to return the nest to some useful location suitable for nesting, as unlikely as success appeared, while under 'motherly' inspection and walked away unharmed.
So what went wrong yesterday?


I had walked about half the distance of my journey and was picking up speed to overcome a little fatigue. The bird swooped - let’s call her Maggie - scuffing my hair with her claws on the first pass, flying toan overhead branch menacingly rubbing her beak against the bark.
No harm done. As I always do with frightened or threatening animals I chat away calmingly - humans think I'm nuts, so what? Maggie looked on and I walked away.
Swooped again and further up the road again!
What had made this bird so cantankerous?

Contrary to myth, magpies do not attack indiscriminately. At least an expert told me that, and it is true in my experience.
Perhaps a young boy on a bike threw stones at a magpie or a mother with a pram approached a baby fallen from the nest. Whatever the reason, Maggie perceives a young boy or a pram as a cause of future alarm.
Parent birds Maggie and Fred are more likely to attack similar looking people.
The problem spirals when other not-so-nice children decide to take pre-emptive strike.
The cycle of seasonal aerial warfare begins afresh.
Well on the return journey home Fräulein Magpie made one last speedy flurry over my hairline and I simply squatted on my haunches and again my sing-song intoned chat to my cautious feathered friend.
Soon the curious bird walked toward me – pecking occasionally at an unidentifiably small object from the ground. Moving to within only a few feet, she then hopped away stopping to eat occasionally to peck at the ground.
So am I a nut. Is this all the wishful dreaming of some strange man who thinks he is the ‘bird-whisperer’?
I am none of the above.
But I do know this.
When I underwent a divorce and I would pray quietly in the car hoping to avoid what sometimes seemed a never ending conflict. It was in no way as bad as it appeared – but that was the point for when I prayed it seemed no conflict arose.
At another time in my life I applied the same principle, by stilling the mind and letting go.
Whatever one’s religious, spiritual or psychological viewpoint, the act of letting go influenced firstly my inner being and, as constantly witnessed by others, my outer results.
Of course we have heard it all before – thoughts are things. We become what we think about. Our thoughts are part of the unified field – or the field of infinite possibilities.
But prove it!
St the very least I think we can agree that our thoughts determine the quality of our actions in obtaining our goals.

‘First comes thought; then organization of that thought, into ideas and plans; then transformation of those plans into reality. The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination’ wrote Napoleon Hill.

Its amazing how the imagination can take on a world of its own. Like a little mental computer game of viral thoughts mutating it no possibilities un-ended. Yes thoughts can take on the qualities of viruses and it is this quality and that quality is called a neme.
A meme, according to Susan Blackmore, (p 64, The Power of Memes, in Scientific American, October 2000) is an idea that behaves in society like a virus does in a body. like the stupid story or lurid joke that upon its first telling is perpetuated and undergoes endless permutations in the game of 'Chinese Whispers'. Just like a virus infecting a host (the person who hears the joke), reproduce (are retold by the new host) and infect new hosts. A virus may hitch a ride on a ‘vector’ (a magazine or website?) and on it goes.
Of course, viruses can be benign or malignant just as an idea could just be stupid, who cares about hair colour anyway?, or even deadly in the case of some racial, ethnic or religious bigotry.
If we think about the last few years alone ideas have changed the face of the map. Before 1917 most of the world was ruled by 5 empires of Great Britain, Russia, Austro-Hungary, China & Japan. Two were gone by 1918, the Austro-Hungarian and Russian, and China’s dying and dead before WWII and Japans effectively gone in function by WWII end. Consider The end of the Colonialist Era up to WWII, the rise and fragmentation of the Soviet Empire and now its reassertion, or the rise of India and China.
Even 'evolution' is affected. I am using the word very loosely here to describe the effect of ideas on the physical and biological environment.
Consider the human figure. I recently undertook a small training program to help make museum grade mannequins. An expert was there as we rebuilt a mannequin using measurements taken from off a dress. Besides the fact I can’t sew and have very little fashion sense– it was fascinating to note how in different periods variations were required because girls were shapely, then the twiggy look was in and then ….. I think you get the idea. I, the ever watchful historian type, was fascinated. Beauty is an ever changing ideal.
The body has varied so much that German researchers are undertaking a mass body-imaging project purely to redesign clothing sizes! Chest capacity is now bigger in men & woman by the way.. for the record, I’m not talking plastic surgery, but rather the lung and chest cavity.
One fashion designer stated: ‘Fashion is designed to become unfashionable.’ Yet fickle or not, fashion is dictating a new physical ideal, as is sport.
Sport stars want to be bigger muscles. Night time ‘Infomercials’ promote another way to more efficiently shape those not too perfect abs!
I read of sumo wrestlers are experiencing injuries because their skeletons are strained even more than would be had they retained their traditional diets. Footballers of all codes want stronger, bigger physiques.
On it goes.
It is not a new phenomenon. The ancient Greeks believed the Gods came to earth even seducing young woman producing the heroes of legend. Physical perfection was seen as a divine attribute to which all should aspire. Much like many a western celebrity today it was desirable to flaunt ones physicality.
Fashion dictates diet and diet effects health. Our diet affects our farming practices and that effects the environment that affects us in turn like a giant spiral.
Nutrtionist Rena Shukla wrote:
“Biologically, when we eat a meal. Until recently, scientists thought food had basically one job: it was metabolised to provide energy for the cell. Indeed, that is what happens to most dietary chemicals - but not all. Some don't get metabolised at all; instead, the moment they're ingested, they become ligands - molecules that bind to proteins involved in "turning on" certain genes. A diet that's particularly out of balance, scientists say, will cause gene expressions that nudge us toward chronic illness unless a precisely-tailored "intelligent diet" is employed to restore the equilibrium.” Cell-to-cell.com Daily Diet 26 June 2008
So diet can affect our genetic code, yet we often choose what went in our mouths only because of an advertisement motivated by someone’s need for a better share price.
Now everyone should be wealthy. But what is wealth? I want money but not billions of dollars gained at the expense of my health leaving me laying attached to life support. Wealth includes the wealth of happiness, friendship, love and heath. It transcends the value of the dollar.
Historically, when nations think they missed out because of the past they often rush into repeating the errors that former masters made to regain their rights. I hope that we can help other emerging nations develop the needed prosperity without the soul destroying and nature degrading methods that were previously used by many in the West.
Wealth is more than money. We know that in our heads but in practice do we follow it?
Consider the association of wealth with fancy eating and convenience. To many it is fashionable for wealth to be associated with a western diet. Japanese youth now eat foods that are now draining the ability of a once brilliant health care system. Australian Cardiologist Ross Walker claimed that 100% of what he called ‘black’ races, African and Pacific Islanders etc, were naturally Insulin Resistant. Although this figure may be disputed ‘Insulin resistance in diabetes mellitus type 2 (DM2) can result from membrane lipid alterations’. A study found the ‘plasma membrane of whites showed higher PE and lower PC levels than that in blacks.’ They concluded ‘The combination of increased saturated/polyunsaturated fatty acids, increased saturated nature, and increased cholesterol/phospholipid can contribute to decreased membrane fluidity, resulting in insulin resistance.’ In other words that diet was bad enough but some races are less tolerant to it than others. (For a concise summary of the statistics http://cat.inist.fr/?aModele=afficheN&cpsidt=18287472 )
Meat consumption is also often associated with opulence and societies that were once eaters off little meat now desire it. It takes more land to feed a population of meet consumers than does the production of vegetation. So the environment is changing because of our changing desires.
Again, our thinking influences the world.
All the above illustrates the power of group consciousness to alter the environment of our lives.
There is an inherent problem with this phenomenon.
The neme, the inherent spread and mutation of ideas.
Nobel lauriet Alexander Solzhenitsyn speaking at Harvard University on 8 June 1978 stated “Hastiness and superficiality are the psychic disease of the 20th century”. I suggest that in the 21st century with the added speed of the internet Solzhenitsyn’s words remain true.
“Because instant and credible information has to be given, it becomes necessary to resort to guesswork, rumors, and suppositions to fill in the voids, and none and none of them will ever be rectified; they will stay on in the readers' memories” said Solzhenitsyn.

Solzhenitsyn had experienced both the press freedom of the west and its restriction in Soviet Russia argued that while dictatorships overtly restrict the press, Western media developed a form of self censorship that restricted the transfer of learned information.

“It is a fashion; there are generally accepted patterns of judgment; there may be
common corporate interests, the sum effect being not competition but unification. Enormous freedom exists for the press, but not for the readership because newspaper[s] mostly develop stress and emphasis to those opinions which do not too openly contradict their own and the general trend” he said.

Sadly the reason the neme complex of misinformation succeeds is that over the centuries these patterns of thought have ‘evolved’ that ‘press the right buttons of our psyche‘.
Historically change often occurred when the ‘moral’ course was the economically or politically prefered option for someone.
The British and later US antislave movements come to mind – or the slow unwinding of the colonial system.
So how do we regain control of our mind? How do we take charge of our own world?
We first need a reason.
"He who has a why for life can put with any how" said Frederick Nietzsche
Consider the example of holocaust survivor Victor Frankl. Even in the degradation and abject misery of a concentration camp, Frankl was able to exercise the the freedom to determine his own attitude and spiritual well-being. No sadistic Nazi SS guard was able to take that away from him or control the inner-life of Frankl's soul. Frankl clearly saw that it was those who had nothing to live for who died quickest in the concentration camp.
“Life holds a potential meaning under any conditions, even the most miserable ones” wrote Frankl who often thought of his wife in those difficult times.
“The salvation of man is through love and in love. I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world may still know bliss, be it only for a brief moment, in the contemplation of his beloved. In a position of utter desolation, when a man cannot express himself in positive action, when his only achievement may consist in enduring his sufferings in the right way--an honourable way--in such a position man can, through loving contemplation of the image he carries of his beloved, achieve fulfilment.”
Those who had reason to live survived he observed.
What is your reason?
“Do what you love and you will never have to do a day of work in your life” said Confucious.
Borrowing John F Kennedy’s words “Ask not what the world can do for me, but ehat I can do for the world.”
In spirit I agree with this. What the world needs however is sometimes in question.
Harold Thurman Whitman looked at it a little differently when he said:
“Don't ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”
Knowing what you can give allows you to give of your best to the world and tailor your gifts as the world reveals its needs to you.
Living in that state of joy, the state of your inner spirit thriving and growing we aopen ourselves to the rewards of positive existence.
Thoughts are things. We must remember that to allow our thoughts influence the world.
There are many wonderful tools to reveal our inner spirit. I like ‘Mindmovies’ at the moment.
Norman Vincent Peale encouraged reflective meditation. A state of mental calm. Being able to relax so that the brain can open to new possibilities. To see the world afresh.
EFT and Sedona recognise that for a large number positive thinking doesn’t work. Its impossible to monitor all our thoughts.
So EFT and Sedona help release hidden stresses thaat get in the way of our natural and inherent ability to attract inner peace, calm and prosperity.
It is in this state of calm I believe I have experienced the disolution of expected conflict and yes feeding the magpies. Due to as computer glitch lets just say it is now later than when i began narrating my magpie novella but an odd thing happened only hours ago.
I was sitting at Redcliffe (Queensland) infront of Santoshi’s, my favourite supplier of all my spices and curries, having missed the bus. I was totally relaxed missing the bus could have been quiet frustrating but whats the point?
As I sat a limping magpie hopped up on the chair opposite me, less than 45centimetres (18 inches) away. He looked at me quizickly rocking hissideways as we retained eye contact for quiet some minutes.
People walked past, the bird moved away and then he returned when they had left. In the last 2 weeks i have had a 4 magpies come down to me calling out, in the words of Denis glover, the refrain ‘Quardle oodle ardle wardle doodle'.
Was it that the magpie wanted a free feed? Or was itr sensing the return of my inner calm?
Brian
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Saturday, September 6, 2008

A Musical Model of Success


One of my favourite performers of all time was the cellist Jacqueline DuPre. According to recording technician Suvi Raj Grubb, Jacqueline was "adored" by fellow performers and recording technicians as "the ideal recording artist, undemanding of other peoples problems and no outbursts of what is called 'temperament'". Technicians would jump to her aid before she even asked. "In the world of music" wrote Grubb, "it is rare for someone to be so universally liked and admired." “
In 1967 she married pianist Daniel Barenboim. TIME magazine wrote, "Thus began one of the most remarkable relationships, personal as well as professional, that music has known since the days of Clara and Robert Schumann." Their marriage led to some fruitful collaboration, evidenced in many recordings with Barenboim as pianist or conductor. Some of the greatest recordings ever made of Beethoven’s Piano Trio's are with her husband.
Then an inexplicable tingling affected her fingers and a 'general malaise' drained her energy. No one could explain it. Concerts and recording projects had to be cancelled.
For six months DuPre had not even touched her Cello and then Producer Suji Rav Grubb received a call from Barenboim in early December 1971. DuPre suddenly wanted to play and so Barenboim asked if studio one at Abbey Road was available on December 10 and 11. She then picked up her Cello and played as if there had been "no interval since she last played". After playing Cello sonatas of Chopin and Frank, arrangements were made to record these works and time was assigned over the next two days. They were recorded "superbly as always" (Grubb).
She then decided to record Beethoven’s sonatas. Grubb and Barenboim had noted her fatigue and looked concerned. The sonata Op. 5, No. 1 was recorded.
"At the end of it she placed her cello back in its case with: 'That is that', and did not even want to listen to what we had taped." She never appeared in a recording studio again. It seems to me, a complete and inner tranquility allowing her acceptance of the end of her short 6-year career of "spontaneous, unaffected, joyous music making" (Grubb).
Later, in 1973 her condition was officially diagnosed as Multiple sclerosis.
What Jacqueline DuPre so special? How does this relate to the pursuit of success?

So her talent and her physical strength combined synergistically.
Obviously, DuPre had talent – and lots of it, she had an instinctive feel for the emotional content of the music she played.
Her tall well-built physique made possible the strength to coax the most gentle, sonorous and delicate shades and tones. Suvi Raj Grubb wrote “ones immediate impression was that the cello was an extension of herself.”

Dupre was a team player and her inner tranquility seemed to draw people to her and inspire creativity
DuPre was an unselfish player, in no way the sophisticate artiste. In small chamber ensembles she exchanged encouragement. As I wrote above she was a delight in the recording studio as well.
People wanted to work with her.
No doubt that brought out the best in her music and in the studios technical excellence.

Perhaps most of all, she loved her music.
Suvi Raj Grubb visited her and Daniel Barenboim’s home yet never found her practicing scales.
She was playing music, with all its passion and skill. Grubb was unable to explain how she could then be a master performer.

सो I look at these 3 points:

How can I combine your great talents and the gifts God has given me?
Do an honest inventory; look at the many gifts so readily overlooked.
I’m only a pensioner, or someone else, I'm only a housewife.

Wallace Wattles in The Science of Getting Rich points out that tack of resources is never the reason a person does not succeed.
Anyone familiar with the success movement from Wattles’ time will constantly be reminded that thoughts are things.
So what are your gifts? Do you know? Are you stuck after the first few (Don’t worry been there myself).
If we begin our day listing reasons for gratitude in our life suddenly our list of perceived assets seems to grow.
Our viewpoint on who we are and what we can achieve will also expand.

Are You A Team Player? Are You at Peace?
The most successful people are at peace with themselves. Being at peace with themselves draws the people you need to you.
Thoughts are things.
Angry thoughts draw angry people. Loving thoughts, loving people.
A tranquil soul can gently caress the inner harmony within.

Finally, are you in love with your purpose? What is your passion?
Feed it, thrive on it, let the spontaneous creativity within you grow. Take every opportunity to live and share it.
Do you know what it is? As you daily review the many reasons of gratitude in your life perhaps a common theme will reveal the secret yearnings of your heart.
Recently I found an old dream list and could not help notice how similar it was to one only written out a few weeks ago.

So there are my thoughts - thoughts of a musical model of success.
She is perhaps also a model of achievement in many other areas of life.